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AlumnaӰԭs Bone Marrow Provides a Life-Saving Gift

When Rachel Buck Ӱԭ19 registered to be a bone marrow donor at an event at the University of New Haven, she never thought she would end up helping to save the life of a child with cancer. But thatӰԭs exactly what she did Ӱԭ and she recently met the boy, who has recovered, and his family.

September 9, 2021

By Renee Chmiel, Office of Marketing and Communications

Rachel buck with Jacob's family at a baseball game
Rachel Buck Ӱԭ19 recently met Jacob and his family at a Bravehearts baseball game. (credit: WCVB NewsCenter 5)

When Rachel Buck Ӱԭ19 was a first-year student at the University of New Haven, she signed up during an event on campus to be a bone marrow donor. She says she didnӰԭt expect much to come out of it, but, years later, she ended up becoming a donor Ӱԭ and saving a young boyӰԭs life.

ӰԭHaving cancer strike my own family, like so many others, I thought why not register?Ӱԭ said Buck, a four-year member of the . ӰԭOne of the statistics that was mentioned that really stuck with me was that only about 30 percent of patients can find a match within their family, leaving the other 70 percent to rely on the registry Ӱԭ strangers, basically. That really struck me because I couldnӰԭt imagine having a family member in need like that and not being able to help them.Ӱԭ

Rachel Buck Ӱԭ19.
Rachel Buck Ӱԭ19.

Indeed, , whose mission is to register young, committed donors to be part of , reports that a patientӰԭs sibling has only a 30 percent chance of matching their Human Leukocyte Antigen (HLA) type and becoming a possible donor. The teamed up with the foundation to host the ӰԭGet in the GameӰԭ event that Buck attended on campus to encourage members of the University community to register.

Shortly before Buck graduated, she got the call that she was a match. While on the phone answering health questions during a senior trip, she was told she was the number one match for a then one-year-old boy named Jacob. She agreed to be his donor, and hearing his story hit home.

ӰԭLearning he was 14 months old at the time really struck me since I have two nieces close to his age,Ӱԭ she explains. ӰԭI couldnӰԭt even imagine what his family was going through. From that moment, I was very eager to do what I could.Ӱԭ

ӰԭTheir strength and resilience deserve recognitionӰԭ

Because Jacob had an aggressive type of cancer, he needed a stem cell transplant. The first appointment for the ӰԭharvestӰԭ of BuckӰԭs cells had to be rescheduled so that Jacob could complete another round of chemotherapy. This would ensure he was strong enough to receive her cells.

Just a few days before her birthday, Buck, who had recently moved to Boston, went to for the procedure, which took about an hour and a half. Doctors removed marrow from her pelvis while she was completely under anesthesia, and she was released the same day. Her lifesaving donation was then airlifted to the hospital in which Jacob was being treated.

ӰԭAlthough it was an intimidating experience when youӰԭre looking at it all at once, the process was a breeze,Ӱԭ said Buck, a medical technologist in the clinical microbiology lab at . ӰԭI would do it again in a heartbeat.Ӱԭ

A year after the procedure, Buck was allowed to release her information to JacobӰԭs family. They hoped to meet around the two-year anniversary of the transplant. When Buck got a call from her contact at Be the Match, she initially thought she was a match for someone else.

Instead, she was told the was hosting events each Friday to encourage more people to sign up to be donors. On the last Friday of the season, they wanted to set up a donor-recipient meeting Ӱԭ with her and Jacob. The hope was that this would increase publicity and awareness of the need for more donors.

ӰԭI was insanely nervous,Ӱԭ admits Buck. ӰԭI was worried they wouldnӰԭt like me, or that Jacob, being a three-year-old, would run away from me! They arenӰԭt a family that seeks the limelight, but for everything they have been through, their strength and resilience deserve recognition.Ӱԭ

Rachel Buck with Jacob's family.
Rachel Buck Ӱԭ19 met JacobӰԭs family, as well as his transplant doctor (second from right), and stem cell coordinator (far right).
ӰԭRachel is a heroӰԭ

When Buck met Jacob and his family at the game last month, they immediately connected. BuckӰԭs family and some of JacobӰԭs extended family were also in attendance, and the families spent the following weekend together. She describes meeting them as ӰԭemotionalӰԭ and that she was on Ӱԭcloud nineӰԭ following their meeting.

ӰԭIt wasnӰԭt until I met him in person that what I had done really began to sink in,Ӱԭ said Buck. ӰԭI feel like I just gained a whole family, and I could not be more thankful. ItӰԭs always been an honor to be a part of his journey, and to now be a part of his life moving forward is the greatest gift. It was like we all just clicked, and I felt like IӰԭve known them forever.

ӰԭI didnӰԭt even realize how hard JacobӰԭs fight was until I met his transplant doctor,Ӱԭ continued Buck. ӰԭI got to sit on the ground and play with rocks with Jacob, and his transplant doctor said that a year ago, something as simple as this would not even be possible. It would have been too dangerous for him to do. To know that I was able to do something that was honestly so easy and simple and that could turn his life around, itӰԭs unbelievable.Ӱԭ

, football head coach emeritus at and president and founder of the Andy Talley Bone Marrow Foundation, was also there when Buck met Jacob and his family.

ӰԭIt was extremely heartwarming to see Rachel meet the little boy for the first time,Ӱԭ said Talley, an award-winning coach, advocate for marrow donation, and public speaker. ӰԭWhat an experience to see a life saver in person showing the world how to give back. Marrow donation is truly a gift of life, and in this case, Rachel is a hero. The University of New Haven is truly fortunate to have young women like Rachel who have given a three-year-old boy a chance for life!Ӱԭ

ӰԭBeing a donor is such a rewarding experienceӰԭ

The event at which Buck registered to be a donor is one of many that have been held at the University of New Haven. The Chargers football team has a long history of helping their fellow Chargers register to be donors, and they have a longstanding relationship with Be the Match.

Rachel's Graduation photo.
Rachel Buck Ӱԭ19 signed up during an event on campus to be a bone marrow donor.

ӰԭFor the eight years I have been the UniversityӰԭs head coach, and for five years before that, our student athletes on the football team have donated their time and energy to promoting the Be the Match program on campus,Ӱԭ said , head football coach at the University. ӰԭWe are so happy that one of the members of our community was able to be matched up with a recipient through these efforts. We look forward to many more years working with the Be the Match program, and we wish Rachel and her match the best of luck in the future.Ӱԭ

Since only adults between the ages of 18 and 44 can register to be a match and because studies have shown that blood stem cells from younger donors lead to better survival rates for recipients, there is always a need for more people to register to be a match for someone such as Jacob. Buck hopes that her and JacobӰԭs story will encourage more people to register. SheӰԭs grateful that what she gave saved a life Ӱԭ and gave her Ӱԭa new little brother.Ӱԭ

ӰԭBeing a donor is such a rewarding experience,Ӱԭ she said. ӰԭOut of my 23 years of life, there has not been anything that can top this, and there probably wonӰԭt for quite some time. Being able to donate does so much more than help that one patient. You arenӰԭt just saving the life of that patient, you are helping their families, their friends, their communities. The good that comes from this goes way beyond what you would think, and I was lucky enough to realize this when meeting JacobӰԭs family.Ӱԭ